Bereaved families lit candles and remembered loved ones during a poignant afternoon at Milton.
The memory day, one of three organised throughout the year by East Anglia’s Children’s Hospices (EACH), was for parents, siblings, grandparents and other family members supported at the charity’s Cambridgeshire base.
After being welcomed by EACH’s Head of Wellbeing and Spiritual Care, Michelle Attrill, family members and staff read a poem adapted from Sherry L Williams’ The Five Candles.
They then listened to a story read by Play Specialist Helen Thrower. The Hare-Shaped Hole gently explores the themes of grief and loss and was written by John Dougherty.
There was also a children’s song, a personal family tribute, time for personal reflection, a poem read by Reverend Alex Jeewan, and the music choices included Somewhere Over the Rainbow and Sir Elton John’s Circle of Life.
In total, 124 people came along, representing 22 families. Although the day started with torrential rain, which made setting up a challenge, the weather eased from lunchtime and the afternoon was dry and warm.
“Our memory days are very special events for the families we support,” said Michelle.
“They represent an important opportunity for people to come together, share their experiences with others who understand and, of course, remember their children.
“It’s always a very poignant occasion and a reminder that families are not alone, with hope for the future.”
Families enjoyed refreshments and were reunited with members of the Milton team, who were well supported by valued volunteers.
There were calming farewell bubbles as guests made their way home.
The memory day took place on Sunday, 22nd September and was made possible thanks generous contributions from A&E Marquees, Graham Shipley, Chrissie Rawlinson, Mick Housen, Simon Mackinder (Mack Productions), Telfer Partners and colleagues from Xperience.
