Family raises over £8,500 in memory of ‘beautiful, happy little boy’

Family raises over £8,500 in memory of ‘beautiful, happy little boy’

Oct 11, 2017

A family from near Ipswich have raised more than £8,500 in memory of “a beautiful, happy little boy” who sadly died last year.

James Dwerryhouse, seven, was adored by those close to him. He had a range of complex health needs, including being fed through a tube, and lived with conditions such as epilepsy and sleep apnoea.

James received care and support from ​EACH, attending music therapy sessions at The Treehouse and enjoying short breaks there. His parents and siblings also took part in some of the hospice’s family activities.

In August 2016, James unexpectedly suffered brain damage following an operation in London. He was put on life support and transferred to The Treehouse, where the support was then turned off. James’s body stayed at the hospice for days after, allowing his family to start to come to terms with what had happened.

His parents, John and Marguerite, said: “As a family, we’ll be forever grateful to The Treehouse. All the staff gave us the time to say goodbye and make memories, and provided an environment in which we could all focus on James. We continue to receive support from The Treehouse and will do for as long as we need it.

“When your child dies, you are left with the memories and it's only when you cannot make any more memories those that you have become so important. The Treehouse made memories with James when he was alive and after he died they helped us as a family with memory-making.”

So thankful have James’s family been that, along with friends, they went on to raise £8,584.55 by what would have been his ninth birthday on 1st October this year.

The phenomenal amount has seen them pay for a day of care and support for us across Suffolk and East Essex – which costs £5,300 a day.

John and Marguerite said: “We’re very grateful to our friends who have organised events and to all those who have donated in James’s memory.

“The total has been raised as a result of gifts from the funeral, a quiz organised by Bethany Bedingfield, a superheroes midnight walk, dress-down days at work, a collection at Sarah and Kelly's wedding, a curry night at Capel Community Church, climbing Snowdon and other events by Eastern Blues, [Norfolk & Suffolk’s Chelsea Supporters Club].”

To mark the fundraising efforts, James’s siblings, Christopher, 21, a university student, Oliver, 18, a pub chef, Beth, 17, and Peter, 16, who are both studying for A-levels, were recently presented with a commemorative wooden trophy.



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  • I really love going to the hospice. I’ve made friends there and get to do loads of fun stuff. Renee
  • We arrived at the hospice feeling scared and alone. We had so many questions – they answered them all and more. Claire, Jacob’s mum
  • We are also supported by the 24/7 True Colours nurses and it’s so reassuring knowing we can call on them whenever we need support or advice Helen, William’s mum
  • EACH has helped us keep Stanley’s memory alive. And allows us to look to the future Brad, Stanley's Dad
  • The play specialists are excellent and I also get inspiration from the activities they organise. Heather, Lucy’s mum
  • EACH helped us with coping mechanisms and special ways of remembering Stanley. Brad, Stanley's Dad
  • EACH supports families when they’re at their absolute lowest, helping them to come to terms with their child’s illness, losing them and beyond Brad, Stanley's Dad
  • Renee loves going to The Treehouse, but it’s great that care staff are also able to visit us at home too. Stacy, Renee’s mum
  • I didn’t realise hope was a gift until I became a mum. My little boy taught me many things and that was one of them Claire, Jacob’s mum
  • It’s been a great opportunity to meet other parents in a similar situation, something that doesn't really happen anywhere else. Helen, William’s mum
  • EACH helps us to create lovely memories and has played an important part in all of our lives, not just Lucy’s. Heather, Lucy’s mum
  • I can’t imagine what it would have been like. Nobody should have to, every family should be offered the support we were, and are still getting Claire, Jacob’s mum
  • When we first heard about the hospice we were apprehensive because we didn’t know what to expect. When we got there we realised it was a lovely place where Renee would be well looked after, and we would be able to have a much-needed break. Stacy, Renee’s mum
  • Children like Lucy don’t get the opportunity to go to sleepovers or to their friends for tea, so the interaction she has at the hospice is priceless. Heather, Lucy’s mum

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